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Have you ever wondered how you can deepen your spiritual intimacy with your spouse? I have written 50 specific, thought-provoking questions here. A good exercise for strengthening intimacy could be asking 1-5 questions a day for a specific period or once a week! These questions are specifically for spiritual strength, in a future blog post I plan on sharing spicy, steamy questions! Feel free to write your favorites down to revisit the question(s) once in a while.

  1. How can we deepen our spiritual connection as a couple?
  2. What does prayer mean to you, and how can we incorporate it more into our daily lives?
  3. How do you envision our faith impacting our relationship in the long term?
  4. In what ways can we serve and support our community together as a couple?
  5. How can we practice forgiveness and grace towards each other, just as Christ does for us?
  6. What biblical principles can guide us in resolving conflicts in a loving and respectful manner?
  7. How can we encourage each other’s spiritual growth and understanding of God’s Word?
  8. Are there any areas in our lives where we can practice greater selflessness and sacrifice for each other?
  9. How do we maintain trust and openness in our relationship while honoring individual boundaries and needs?
  10. What role does gratitude play in our lives and relationship, and how can we express it more often?
  11. How can we create a home environment that promotes peace, joy, and love?
  12. What spiritual practices or disciplines can we adopt together to strengthen our bond?
  13. How can we support each other’s dreams and aspirations, aligning them with God’s plan for our lives?
  14. In what ways can we integrate physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy into our relationship?
  15. How can we cultivate a spirit of contentment and joy in all circumstances?
  16. What steps can we take to prioritize our health and well-being, as temples of the Holy Spirit?
  17. How can we show greater compassion and empathy to those in need around us?
  18. What biblical teachings can guide our financial decisions and stewardship?
  19. How can we balance our individual responsibilities and roles while remaining unified as a couple?
  20. What are our shared values, and how can we use them to make decisions together?
  21. How do we handle stress and challenges in a way that strengthens our bond?
  22. In what ways can we nurture and support each other’s passions and hobbies?
  23. What practices can help us stay connected and grow closer during busy or challenging seasons?
  24. How do we embrace vulnerability and create a safe space for open communication?
  25. How can we infuse our relationship with hope and optimism, even during difficult times?
  26. What spiritual habits can we establish to deepen our understanding of God’s love for us?
  27. How do we celebrate and acknowledge each other’s accomplishments and milestones?
  28. How can we extend forgiveness and reconciliation towards one another, following Christ’s example?
  29. What activities or hobbies can we explore together to enrich our relationship?
  30. How do we practice self-care individually and as a couple to maintain overall wellbeing?
  31. What boundaries can we set to protect our relationship and foster trust and security?
  32. How can we use Scripture to guide our decision-making and problem-solving as a couple?
  33. In what ways can we support each other’s spiritual growth and exploration?
  34. How can we bring more gratitude into our daily interactions and expressions of love?
  35. What are some meaningful traditions we can establish to strengthen our connection?
  36. How do we maintain a healthy work-life balance and prioritize quality time together?
  37. How can we ensure that our communication is always respectful and loving?
  38. What steps can we take to encourage each other’s personal and professional growth?
  39. How can we create an atmosphere of peace and calmness in our home?
  40. In what ways can we serve others as a couple and share God’s love with the world?
  41. How do we approach decision-making together, seeking God’s guidance and wisdom?
  42. What qualities do we admire most in each other, and how can we express our appreciation?
  43. How do we cope with disappointments or unmet expectations in a healthy way?
  44. How can we nurture our emotional connection and foster emotional intimacy?
  45. What practices can we adopt to stay spiritually grounded and centered in God’s love?
  46. How do we celebrate and honor our faith journey as a couple?
  47. In what ways can we embrace change and growth while remaining anchored in our faith?
  48. How can we infuse our relationship with laughter and playfulness?
  49. What role does gratitude play in our lives, and how can we express it towards each other and God?
  50. How can we continuously grow in our love for each other and for God, seeking to become the best versions of ourselves?

I recommend my intimacy bundle of herbal medicinal teas to go with the game of questions. 🙂

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